Imagine standing in front of this heavy, sealed metal door. A thick industrial wheel in the centre — cold, rigid, bolted in place. It’s not just there to open something. It’s there to keep it closed. And you — yes, you — are the one gripping it with white-knuckled certainty. Spinning it tighter. Believing you’re protecting yourself. Believing you’re protecting your relationship, your career, your heart, your sanity.
But let’s be honest:
You’ve over-tightened.
You’ve turned self-protection into self-sabotage.
You’ve locked the system — and now you wonder why no one can reach you.
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