Imagine your mind is a living room. A little messy, but familiar. In the corner sits a comfy armchair. On it, in gold letters: “I’m thinking.” You rest there often. Proud. Comfortable. But what you’re really doing is this: You’re pretending your thinking is functional. That you know who you are, what you want, and how to decide. But you don’t. You’ve simply made yourself at home in the dim glow of self-deception.
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